Is Sex In Long-Term Relationships Destined To Decline?

[ Q: I love solo sex, partnered sex, one-night stands, watching porn, reading erotica, sexting, taking racy photos, wearing lingerie, experimenting with toys, etc. My sex life is incredibly important to me, even as a single woman. I have sowed my wild oats, and enjoyed that, but I yearn for the intimacy and adventure of … Read more

How Soon Is Too Soon To Get Engaged In Your Late 20s?

[ Q: How soon is too soon to get engaged? I’m 28, my boyfriend is 29, and we met nine months ago. We’re really happy! We’ve met each other’s families, moved in together, and talked about big future life stuff (kids, money). We’ve had a big fight and gotten through it, so I know we … Read more

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With Me Anymore

[ Q: How little sex is too little? My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than four years (we’re both in our early 30s and just moved in together) and we just… don’t really have sex anymore. It’ll be like a couple times a month. We’re both busy and stressed with … Read more

My Boyfriend Hasn’t Proposed Yet, How Do I Get Over It?

[ Q: I’ve been with my boyfriend for over six years now. Things are wonderful: We live together (with our cat), we spend time with each other’s families, we just moved to a new city together. But people have started to ask when we’re going to get married, and I have to admit, to my … Read more